Bittersweet

We have a condo in Murrieta, about 90 miles south of our place here in LA. We bought it when Robyn got a job in that area and rather than drive back and forth and stay in a motel, we had a place where she could hang out and we could visit periodically. It is nice, two bedrooms, two baths, with a courtyard and a patio where one can sit out, have and adult beverage, and watch golfers on the nearby course chip and put on the fourth green.
Time has passed. We no longer visit the spot and it was appropriate that we either sell or rent it out. Rent was the decision and we hired a management company to take over the place and maintain as an income rental. I wanted to rent it furnished but they said no. “If a renter provides their own furniture, then they are more committed. We rent it unfurnished.”
The question is what to do with basically a complete household of furniture. The management company said they were happy to call a junk dealer have have it all trashed. I decided to seen an alternative. I found a nearby charity, like goodwill, that would come and pick up all the clothes and furniture. This weekend was set for the move out.
A friend and I went down and boxed up books and clothes. The movers arrived and in less than two hours had everything except the beds (they don’t take beds) loaded.
I know its just ‘stuff,’ but I was saddened to see so much of what we had accumulated over the past 30 years just given away. We had spent many happy hours there just to ‘get away’ for a day or so. We had made friends with some of the permanent residents, but they, too, had either moved or passed on. We were all that was left. Both Robyn and I had served on the condo board, which was an adventure to be told at another time. Briefly I can tell you, “Don’t do it.”
One of our critters, Heidi, got out and we found her the next day three miles away sitting under a tree along side the freeway. She gave me a “what took you so long” look. Had we not found her, my guess is that we would have sold the place. Cat, Brackets, got out and we never saw him again. Robyn spend a number of weekends sitting with the doors open, hoping, but to no avail. Tuxedo, Gigi, and Shiloh enjoyed traveling the hour and a half and then exploring the place.
Our friends from Ottawa stayed in our place for a few days one winter and liked it so much they bought a unit nearby. They come down after Christmas and stay until the weather turns. Denise’s brother, Dennis, bought the unit next door to ours.
But enough. Yes its sad, but it is time to move along. Fair well, 29340 Calle Gaviota. You had a good run. But its time for a change.
JVH

Bittersweet

We have a condo in Murrieta, about 90 miles south of our place here in LA. We bought it when Robyn got a job in that area and rather than drive back and forth and stay in a motel, we had a place where she could hang out

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Bittersweet

We have a condo in Murrieta, about 90 miles south of our place here in LA. We bought it when Robyn got a job in that area and rather than drive back and forth and stay in a motel, we had a place where she could hang out

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About The Author

John Van Horn

JVH grew up among the orange groves in Ventura County just north of Los Angeles. His mother taught elementary students, his father ran the local newspaper. After graduating from UCLA and spending three years in the Army during the Vietnam era, he returned home and worked with his father on the local weekly. He sold the paper and moved to Los Angeles to attempt to make his fortune. He spent two decades managing the sales of parking revenue control equipment for a major US manufacturer.

In 1996 he founded Parking Today magazine. He sold Parking Today in 2024 and is now ‘sort of “retired. During his tenure as publisher of PT, he was honored to have been asked to speak before Parking Audiences in China, the Philippines, Australia, New Zealand, Israel, Canada, Brazil, the United Arab Emirates, Germany, France, Spain, and the UK. His travels in the US have taken him before groups in 20 states. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, Robyn and dog Gigi.

JVH continues to publish his “Death by Parking” series of books (he is now working on his third) and blogs regularly. His comments can be found at jvhreflections.com. He can be reached at jvh@jvhreflections.com

Our History

They, whoever ‘they’ are, say that your personality is formed very early in life. My folks are from the Ozarks in Missouri. They left for California on December 6, 1941. My dad told me if they had waited one more day, they never would have come.  Read More

death by parking

Paul Manning always wanted to be a cop. During the Korean War he was an MP. When he returned to Los Angeles he joined the LAPD. That’s when it began to spiral in. He and his partner came upon a woman being raped. Paul tolerated a lot, but not violence against women. Before his partner could stop him, he beat the perp within an inch of his life.